Feeling first after marriage

 Marriage as an institution emerged during neolithic period. When humans shifted hunter- gatherer society to settled agriculture. We all know  that each and everything according to time change. Changing pattern not suddenly but slowly. Early societies was not based romantic love but economically survival and social order.

 Marriage firstly famous monogamy means one spouse at a time. This marriage adopted universally provide social and legal stability. Then time change and popularity gain polygyny means one husband multiple wife example's Raja Dashrath. Male dominant and high male mortality in war, agriculture labor. Then time change and society converted to polyandry means one women married multiple husband or men. Main cause division of land, harsh environment and lack of women example's Draupadi in Mahabharat, then time change and popularity gain group marriages multiple men and women form a marital status, main cause primitive societies and right for men and women equal but some exception but each and every place some exception, exist ideological societies.

 Still time change and more popular endogamy means marriage with in caste, tribe, religion, caste system more dominant in Indian society. People belief some caste impure polluted untouchable and economically status nil. So endogamy is more popularity gain present time we seen this system. Still time change emergence of exogamy means marriage outside a group famous for gotra system in India. Tribal societies marriage outside society. Open society main purpose build alliances, prevent un stability, society main goal stable society made. Still time change gain popularity arranged marriage means family arranged spouse selection. This marriage gain Popularity in India and world wide, this norms maintain social stability. 

Then time change and famous for love marriage means individual choice based marriage and growth firstly in urban areas and slowly- slowly emergence in rural areas. Rural people connected with the society deeply, each other's known and maintain values norms and respect. Love marriage more common in urban society but rural people front challenges and unaccepted. Rural people belief those individual do love marriage they culprit, why rural people orthodox mindset and given more value to self respect seen society what says and what not says some people son and daughter when do love then his parents do suicide and caste based discrimination is more dominant on rural people they belief purity, identity and pollution. They not belief son and daughter happiness, I seen lot of people kill boys and girls and mostly cases boys killing main cause inter caste and intercommunity marriage. They do not see this thing that other community or caste integration. Caste strong role play emotional bonds.

Mostly cases in rural areas couples may face social boycott. People and parents don't support couples. Continuous give social pressure may cause stress and anxiety. I am going to mention  background of love marriage and live in relationship. Early people married child stage and mature time this married do the same individual. Then time change and do the individual marriage 15,16,17,18  in years, when many biological changes in boys and girls body. Early times in boys and girls biological needs completed but modern time individual focus career job and standard of life opportunity, so lot of time invest in career, education extra curriculum and individual age cross 20-25 and 30-35 then then human bio needs not completed in early age then during education, career individual meet opposite gender and begin love after male and female individual satisfied each other then converted love marriage.

 Love marriage depends on more mutual understanding, better partner capability shared education goals and life preference. Women have greater freedom in choosing partner and better safety protection and social mobility, inter caste inter religious and inter cultural marriages. I research some rural areas and urban areas then I see more priority given to the love marriage in urban areas but based on economically, educationally status in middle and upper family. But now time common in love marriage in rural areas slowly - slowly society change and first priority given family then society but big level but yes smallest level. Orthodox mindset people converted to open mindset, it can act as a total of social changes. Love marriage empowering both male and female modernization, urbanization and education change people orthodox mindset to reflect open mindset. 

Our Constitution important role play example article 21 right to liberty and security provide mature individual and some state benefit provide on inter caste marriage. Constitution force reduce child marriage and build youth empowerment decision, making ability  and more detail in our Constitution and government support on love marriage then we seen strongly protection IPC section 506,323,325,366 and special marriage Act 1956 according to  inter caste inter religious marriage allowed and KS PUTTASWAMY case in  relationship are private matter. Shakti Vahini vs union of India case 2018  according love marriage couples protection. Constitution of India in fundamental right provide article 14 right to equality, article 15 no discrimination, article19 individual freedom and article 25 marriage religion above personal choices. 

But today lot of discrimination seen in society. Couples struggle killing, false complain, kidnapping, rape, police struggle moral ethical pressure. Many family in rural  and urban both place late acceptance. But slowly slowly more popular gain love marriage. Firstly boys and girl mutual understanding then marriage and strong role play technology. If modern time don't talk technology then feel some thing leave. But yes technology motivate couples according to Instagram Facebook, reels. We all know society rapidly change individual choice important. Many country well supported love marriage Europe USA Canada but chances high divorce loneliness issue came our front and rapidly secretly in India increase love marriages. Women Empowerment biggest role play love marriage. If simple word say conflict temporary and change permanent so love marriage acceptance according to time. 

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